Not so long ago, you were so in love with butterflies in your stomach at the thought of the love of your life

Not so long ago, you were so in love with butterflies in your stomach at the thought of the love of your life. At that point, everything was so perfect and your partner could not put one foot wrong.

You were so in love, and you did what seemed to be the most logical step- you decided to tie the knot. But now, you are starting to notice irritating traits about your spouse.

It is natural for couples to fight, because it is difficult to merge two different personalities. But refrain from blowing the situation out of control. If there is something that is really bothering you about your spouse, sort it out before it becomes a huge issue. Do not allow for small annoyances to compound into bigger issues, because that can really put a lot of strain on your marriage.

When you are telling your spouse about whatever it is that is bothering you, refrain from yelling and screaming at your spouse. Approach your spouse in a calm manner, otherwise, they will become defensive about whatever you are confronting them about. If you are yelling at them, they will mostly likely react in anger, and they might end up resenting you for the way you are talking to them.

In the midst of an argument, try not to call them names or dredge things that happened in the past. Be careful of saying hurtful things that you can never take back.

Be willing to forgive your spouse if they are sincerely sorry. Holding on to past disappointments just makes it that much harder to forgive, and it make it difficult for you and your spouse to put it behind you and move on. Remember nobody is perfect, including you.

You are with your spouse through good and bad, and when it does get bad, just remember the good times and they will pull you through. Your marriage is still new, remind yourself how crazy you were about your spouse, and hang on to the their positives.

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