When a marriage starts to unravel, it’s often hard to face it

When a marriage starts to unravel, it’s often hard to face it. Many couples go months or years in a state of silent turmoil, both knowing that things have changed, but neither addressing or acknowledging it. If this sounds like you and your wife, you need to stop hiding in the sand and start taking a long, hard look at the state of your relationship with her. If you’re becoming increasingly concerned that she’s got one foot out of the door of the marriage, you need to pay closer attention to what’s going on before it’s too late. There are several signs your wife is leaving you that you need to be aware of. If you see any of these in your spouse, now is the time to do something before you’re faced with the reality of separation or divorce.

Some of the signs your wife is leaving you are obviously more pronounced than others. Here’s a short list of what you need to be looking for in her behavior if you suspect she’s ready to call it quits:

  • She spends more and more time away from home. Unfortunately, work obligations make for the perfect excuse for a woman who doesn’t want to spend time with her husband. All she has to do is say that she has a big project or something she needs to catch up on. If your spouse seems more married to her job than you lately, that’s a strong sign that she’s not as in love with you as she once was.
  • Intimacy changes dramatically. A woman has to feel emotionally close to a man in order to enjoy intimacy with him. If your wife has reached a point in your relationship where she’s feeling very disconnected from you that will show itself in the bedroom. Sexless marriages are often a direct result of the wife’s changing feelings for her husband. If this is ignored for too long, divorce really does become the only option.
  • She criticizes you more and more. When a woman is unhappy with her husband, she’ll take the frustration of that out on him. You can typically see this happening by the way she treats you. If she’s become increasingly critical of everything about you and you feel that you can’t do anything right, that’s a bad sign. She may be doing this subconsciously in an effort to push you away from her. Some women who are hesitant about leaving will actually try and make their husband leave by treating him poorly.

Continuing to ignore a dramatic change in your marriage won’t magically make things better. If you love your wife and you want your marriage to survive, you have to honestly consider where things stand and what you can do to improve things before it’s too late.

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