Perhaps the most difficult part of proposing to your girlfriend is getting the timing right

Perhaps the most difficult part of proposing to your girlfriend is getting the timing right. If you do it before she’s ready you risk being turned down, and if you wait too long, she may get frustrated and move on. However, there is a time when you can propose when she’s ready but also before she expects it, and this article will help you create those circumstances.

Before you propose it’s a good idea to have a proposal related discussion with your girlfriend. This is assuming you are happy in the relationship and that marriage is something you’d be in favor of. If this is the case for you, consider bringing up the future and find out where she is hoping your relationship will progress to. In other words, use this discussion to make sure she wants to get married, wants to get married to you, and is or close to mentally and emotionally prepared for it.

Once you’ve got that out of the way, and are comfortable with her desire to marry you, you can start planning your proposal. It’s at this point that you want to figure out a way to catch her off guard and propose before she’s expecting you too. If you’ve hinted that you may be waiting for a certain milestone to take place (i.e. finish graduate school, new job to begin, etc.) consider proposing before that event. This will certainly be a surprise and you will get the maximum effect out of your proposal.

A marriage proposal should be an awesome moment for your girlfriend, one that she’s not expecting but wants. The balance here can be very tricky, which is why you should have a good pulse on the status of your relationship. In order to effectively pull off a surprise proposal you need to do it just before she begins to expect it.

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